The secret to a meaningful life

All the answers are laid inside you and you probably do not need any advice, but only to rest in yourself qualitatively. All the art of coaching is built on asking the right, promoting questions and sincere belief that the client has all the resources to cope with the challenge facing him.

January 9, 2020
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Taras Bold Blog The Secret

It is very close. Do you feel it? Of course, it is inside you – in your head. I mean that only you will depend on whether your life is meaningful. Or do you think that is from your neighbor, government or employer? Of course not. You fill your life with what you fill it now, or with meaning.

To succeed in any business and life as a whole, having lived it qualitatively and with meaning, only 3 things are necessary:

1) Know what to do

2) Know how to do it

3) And above all: take it and do it!

All the art of coaching is built on asking the right, promoting questions and sincere belief that the client has all the resources to cope with the challenge facing him.

All the answers are laid inside you and you probably do not need any advice, but only to rest in yourself qualitatively. All the art of coaching is built on asking the right, promoting questions and sincere belief that the client has all the resources to cope with the challenge facing him.

Let’s begin the analysis of our secret with the paragraph What? This is the most important point and here you do not need anyone. Any counselor from the outside will impose his desires, which does not bring you any closer to what you want. But looking at your problem/task from the side or another angle will not be a problem. A good personal coach has this ability plus the most important thing is that he does not give advice, but only asks questions that magically advance you to the desired solution. It is great art. Some people would never have been able to achieve the results that were made possible by a partnership with a coach themselves in their lives on their own. Of course, there is also coaches who are unable to promote the client. But the point, in any case, is that you would clearly define WHAT you want. This sets the direction, the direction of your daily actions, giving them meaning, meaning and purpose. Your focus of attention and all energy will be directed to achieving clearly defined SMART goals, which makes automatically not important and insignificant everything else. And we all know that the beam of light focused by the lens is capable of burning even solid bodies, and the scattered light (as your attention without purpose) only shines. So yours, your goal is that lens that turns focused energy into the desired result.

Your focus of attention and all energy will be directed to achieving clearly defined SMART goals, which makes automatically not important and insignificant everything else.

Now we turn to the second point – HOW. So how do you achieve what you already know exactly what you want to achieve? As though it might seem strange, but to answer the question How I suggest you from the very beginning to determine WHY it is important to you! Interesting? This is because if you already know what you want to achieve, and also understand why, and therefore what will become even more possible after the result is achieved – your connection to the goal will also be at the emotional level, which strengthens the desire and effectiveness of all your actions. The next step, of course, is to draw up a plan of action to achieve what is desired. The most important thing that you should realize is that the overall success is formed by everyday right actions and understanding where you actually go. There is one magic example of sports when in the 2015/16 season the football club Leicester City for the first time became the champion of the most highly competitive football league in the world – English Premier League. At the same time in the previous season, they fought for the preservation of a place in the division. How was this possible? And the secret is simple: The new coach Italian Claudio Ranieri set the task of the team to win only one match – the next one and do not think about any other or departure from the league. He set up players to demonstrate their best abilities in one particular match. And so from the strategy of victories in each specific match and the overall result is a fantastically unexpected championship Lester City. My recipe for achieving the goal is to know what you want, to understand why it is important and every day to do the maximum possible for it.

The most important thing that you should realize is that the overall success is formed by everyday right actions and understanding where you actually go.

Easy? Of Course. Specially to say. And how to do it? Well, here will definitely have to work. This is also if you want to learn to speak a foreign language, you need to speak it. The first 2 items that were qualitatively developed are already 80% of the success. The rest is discipline. Could only a brilliant strategy by Claudio Ranieri and his motivation to lead Leicester City to the championship? Without disciplined action by each team player? No. You should understand that any implemented project is better than the ideal, but never launched into life. Knowing where you go and why, gives importance to your daily actions, which should definitely be focused on getting the desired result precisely today and it does not matter what difficulties and mistakes you face. So a brick by brick, you will build your castle, which you will fill with a meaningful life.

As a coach, I will have the honor to accompany you on this journey.

Taras Bold

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